Selena Gomez is lifting the curtain on her creative process. The pop star shared an intimate and emotional new throwback video on TikTok, showing fans how she wrote her 2019 hit single, «Lose You to Love Me.» «Making of… me getting to know myself,» she wrote over the video, in which she can be seen singing at a piano as she works through the lyrics of the song. In her caption, Gomez said that she would be turning off comments for the post. «This isn't the greatest i know so i hope no one minds me turning the comments off for my head but this was the best, most sincere moments with lose you to love me,» she captioned the video. Gomez appears to be emotional as she quietly sings to herself, beginning with the song's first verse. This isnt the greatest i know so i hope no one minds me turning the comments off for my head but this was the best, most sincere moments with lose you to love me «Lose You to Love Me» was co-written between Gomez, Julia Michaels and Justin Tranter, along with the song's producers, Mattman and Robin.