'My perfect boyfriend suddenly ghosted me and won't tell me why - I need answers'
20.02.2023 - 16:37
/ ok.co.uk
In Lalalaletmeexplain's hit column, readers ask for her expert advice on their own love, sex and relationship problems. With over 200k Instagram followers, Lala is the anonymous voice helping womankind through every bump in the road. An established sex, dating and relationship educator, she’s had her fair share of relationship drama and shares her wisdom on social media to a loyal army of followers.
Every week thousands turn to her to answer their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her funny, frank approach to love and relationships has made her the ultimate feel-good guru. Are you an OK! VIP ? If not, why not? It’s free and gives you backstage access to stories like this, exclusive home tours, special discounts and so much more! All you need to do is pop your email address below! P.S. If you’re already seeing this article in full, congrats - you’re already on our guest list! Dear Lala, My boyfriend of three months (perfect relationship, on the same page about everything, never argued) woke up one day and didn’t want to be with me anymore.
He essentially ghosted me for two days and then texted saying he wasn’t ‘feeling it’ anymore and then continued to ghost. I am so shocked. We saw each other once or twice a week, we were exclusive after date one because we just hit it off so well.
We even met each other’s families. We had our first TINY argument, but we got over it, and then next thing I know he’s gone. No explanation.
I’ve begged for a face-to-face conversation to get closure and move on, but he just ignores me. I know you’re probably thinking block, delete, move on, but I just feel like I can’t get past this without an explanation. I don’t actually miss him as a person, I just feel violated because he
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