Heartbroken mum pays emotional tribute to son with a 'beautiful soul' after sudden death
29.09.2023 - 19:29
/ manchestereveningnews.co.uk
The mother of a young man who took his own life has issued an emotional plea to men who may be struggling with their mental health.
Ben Murray, 35, who had a young son, died in a wooded area close to his home in Chorley, Lancashire on June 25 of this year. At an inquest today (Friday, September 28), a coroner ruled his death was a suicide.
Ben's mum heartbroken mum Deborah has now urged others who might be in a bad place to be 'be honest and talk to someone.' Deborah spoke during the inquest about how her son had a 'beautiful little soul.' She also said he always thought of others before himself, Lancs Live report.
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Although Ben had, in the past, sought help for his mental health issues, once he overcome a crisis he would insist that he was 'fine.' Mum Deborah said that he felt as if he 'wasn't a man' if he admitted he was struggling.
"I couldn't force him to take medication," Deborah said. "I'd say 'how are you feeling' and he would say he was fine. It was more out of embarrassment than privacy; thinking that he wasn't a man. He always thought he was a burden to everybody."
Deborah's assessment of her son's inability to admit he was suffering was backed by mental health nurse Brian Humes. During the inquest he said Ben had "wanted to get his life back together" and refused any further support.
In 2021, after attempting to take his own life, Ben spent 10 days in a mental health unit. Experts who assessed him said that what had happened was a "situational crisis" and that they were confident Ben was much improved.
Deborah also believes that Ben