, Emily has a candid conversation with Kobe about not being sure they're ready to get married given some new things she's learned about him recently, causing the usually mild-mannered Kobe to walk out on her in anger.Emily and Kobe have been on shaky ground since finding out she's pregnant with their second child together — which definitely wasn't planned and they've been keeping a secret since her father expressly told her not to get pregnant while the two were still living in his house — and since his close friend, Temperature, told her that in Cameroon where he and Kobe are both from, the man always has to be the boss in the relationship. Temperature also encouraged Kobe to move to Ohio where there is a larger African community, although Emily doesn't want to move away from Kansas where her family lives. «All these things are just coming out of the woodwork and I'm like, where are they coming from?» Emily asks Kobe on the night before their wedding.