Netflix documentary “Arnold,” the “Terminator” star, 75, said that Shriver, 67, confronted him in 2011 through their marriage counselor regarding his parentage, according to The Sun. “She wants to know if you’re the father of Joseph,” the counselor said regarding Joseph, who was born in 1997.“I thought my heart stopped,” said the former movie star. “And then I told the truth.“Yes, Maria.