Paris Hilton says her wild life came “crashing down” when she realised she was pregnant aged 22. The socialite-turned DJ, 42, had her first child, son Phoenix Barron Hilton Reum, via surrogate with her 42-year-old venture capitalist husband Carter Reum in January, but reveals in her upcoming memoir her pain over almost being a mother almost two decades ago at the peak of her reality TV fame, before she took the agonising decision to have an abortion. She says in an extract from her upcoming autobiography ‘Paris: The Memoir’, published by Time magazine on Tuesday (07.